Neurodivergence & Dog Training Part 3: Creating a Neurodivergent-Affirming World

Neurodivergence & Dog Training

Welcome to the final installment of our three-part series on neurodiversity. In Part 1 we explored what neurodivergence means and why it matters. In Part 2 we got practical, looking at flexible and client-centered approaches to training. Here in Part 3 we zoom out to the bigger picture: what does it actually look like to build a world — and a training culture — that is genuinely affirming of neurodiversity?

The answer begins with a willingness to embrace difference in all its forms. Neurodivergence encompasses a broad range of ways people receive information, learn, process sensory input, and move through the world. To be truly affirming means resisting the urge to flatten those differences into a single category or checklist. In a society that loves to compartmentalize and label, that is no small ask — but progress is being made every day, and every one of us in this field has a role to play.

Dispelling Myths

One of the most powerful things we can do is challenge the myths that persist around neurodivergence. These myths cause real harm by delaying diagnosis, limiting access to support, and reinforcing stigma.

One important example: autism has long been considered primarily a male diagnosis. We now know this is not accurate. Autism is far more prevalent in women and girls than was originally understood — but women have been historically underdiagnosed, in part due to differences in how traits present, in part due to the tendency of women to mask more effectively, and in part due to systemic sexism in healthcare that has dismissed or misattributed their experiences for decades. Naming this openly is part of creating a more just and accurate picture of who neurodivergent people are.

Staying curious, staying humble, and continuing to learn is how we keep from perpetuating the myths we inherited.

How Clients Find Us: Accessible Marketing and Web Presence

For trainers and team facilitators, creating a neurodivergent-affirming world starts before the first session — it starts with how clients find and reach us. Our websites and online spaces are often the first point of contact, and they send a message about who we are and who we are designed for. Intentional choices about web design can make a real difference in accessibility. Consider the following:
  • Keep web pages clean and uncluttered. Too much visual stimuli, competing images, or dense blocks of text can be overwhelming for many neurodivergent users.
  • Minimize autoplay sounds or videos, which can be startling or disorienting.
  • Make contact options easy to find and varied — not everyone is comfortable with phone calls. Offering email or a simple contact form gives people options.
  • Use plain, direct language. Avoid jargon or overly formal phrasing that creates distance.
  • Consider contrast, font size, and readability for those with visual processing differences.
The goal is a digital space that feels welcoming and easy to navigate — one that says, implicitly, we thought about you when we built this.

The Training Environment

Just as we considered the individual client in Part 2, here we think about the physical and sensory environment of training itself. A space that works well for a neurotypical person may present real barriers for someone who is neurodivergent. Thoughtful setup is an act of inclusion.

When designing or preparing a training space, consider all five senses:

  • Sight: Is the lighting harsh or flickering? Natural or warm lighting is generally easier to tolerate than fluorescent. Is the space visually busy or relatively calm?
  • Sound: Are there competing noises — music, traffic, other dogs, equipment? Reducing auditory clutter helps clients focus and regulate.
  • Touch and movement: Is there generous personal space? Are the surfaces comfortable and predictable underfoot? Is there room to move or step back if needed?
  • Smell: Strong cleaning products, perfumes, or animal odors can be overwhelming for those with sensory sensitivities.
  • Temperature: Is the space comfortable? Extremes of heat or cold add to sensory load.

Providing training plans in advance is another concrete way to support neurodivergent clients. Knowing what to expect reduces anxiety and allows people to prepare mentally and practically. Some learners do best with a top-down overview of where things are going before diving into the details. Others prefer to build understanding from the ground up. Asking clients how they learn best — and being flexible enough to adapt — is the heart of client-centered practice.

Disability Discrimination and Our Responsibility

Creating a neurodivergent-affirming world also means being willing to name and address disability discrimination — including the subtle, often unconscious ways it shows up in training spaces and professional culture.

Discrimination does not always look like outright exclusion. It can look like impatience with a client who processes slowly or asks the same question multiple times. It can look like designing programs entirely around neurotypical communication styles and then being puzzled when some clients disengage. It can look like making assumptions about a person’s capability, motivation, or commitment based on how they present rather than what they are actually experiencing.

It can also look like the pressure placed on neurodivergent individuals to mask their differences in order to be taken seriously — to perform neurotypicality as the price of access. That cost is enormous and largely invisible to those who don’t pay it.

As trainers, team facilitators, and advocates, we have a responsibility to examine our own assumptions and the structures we operate within. This is ongoing work, not a box to check.

Belonging is not the same as fitting in. Fitting in asks us to hide parts of ourselves. Belonging happens when our whole self is welcomed.

Keeping Learning: Advocacy and Community

Being neurodiversity-affirming is not a destination — it is a practice. Joining advocacy groups, following researchers and advocates with lived experience, and staying connected to evolving thinking in this space are all ways to keep growing.

Within Atlas, spaces like our trainer and team facilitator forums are opportunities to share what is working, ask questions, and learn from each other’s experiences with diverse client teams. The collective wisdom in our community is one of our greatest resources.

Outside of Atlas, there is a growing body of work — research, advocacy, personal narrative — that can deepen our understanding. A few starting points are listed in the resources section below.

A Closing Thought

Throughout this series, one idea has returned again and again, from our trainers, our clients, and the researchers whose work informs ours: every person has a fundamental need to belong.

Social work researcher Brené Brown draws a powerful distinction between fitting in and belonging. Fitting in is when we change or hide parts of ourselves in order to be accepted by a group. Belonging is something different — it is what happens when our authentic self is welcomed, seen, and valued as we truly are. Fitting in asks us to shrink. Belonging asks others to expand.

In our work with neurodivergent clients and colleagues, that distinction matters enormously. We are not asking people to become easier to accommodate. We are asking ourselves — as trainers, as advocates, as a community — to build something wide enough to hold everyone.

That is the work. Let’s keep doing it together.

Resources

  • Neurodiversity Network — comprehensive website of resources on neurodiversity
  • Association for Autism and Neurodiversity (AANE) — resources including support groups, forums, and DEI guidance
  • TED Talk by Adriana Torres: “Do You Know an Autistic Woman?” — an important perspective on the underdiagnosis of autism in women
  • About Atlas Assistance Dogs

    Atlas Assistance Dogs is a non-profit organization that fundamentally expands access to assistance dogs. We support people with disabilities to train and certify their own service dog using positive, ethical training methods. At Atlas, we believe anyone who would benefit from a qualified assistance dog should be able to have one.

    We work with people with a wide range of disabilities who wish to train their own service dog as well as offer a comprehensive Academy for professional trainers wanting to become service dog trainers. For more information about Atlas’ Client Certification program or other training services, please visit www.atlasdog.org or contact info@atlasdog.org.

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